I have discovered that love does not guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand cheating isn’t always a product of not loving your partner. In fact loving someone doesn’t guarantee not falling in love with someone else.
Relationships work out mostly because of our heads not our hearts. It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathic intelligence and self discipline; because a time will come when you’ll see more beautiful, more handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you’re in a relationship with.
In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going. With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you’re committed to will rank first in your life. You think happily married people don’t see better people than the ones they’re married to? You think they don’t feel funny sometimes too? They do!
It's not about pressure or anything else, it’s how I’ve wanted my life to be. Gradually with you or someone else. So you really have to decide how much you want to do these things. Once that inclination is solid, everything else falls into place. The ease is there.