The Best Sex from a Man’s POV
What is the Kama Sutra? What is the location of the Venus butterfly? Is that a Playboy centerfold? Lingerie that’s sexy? Role-playing that is a little naughty? What if I told you that, despite their allure, none of these are considered crucial elements for the best sex ever by men?
So, I’m afraid we won’t be able to replicate that response here... But the general consensus among many of you is that I’m insane! Shouldn’t a qualified counselor and international relationship specialist know better?
A man can be turned on by a variety of things. Many guys would undoubtedly reply that any of the items on the list above would make for wonderful sex if they were visually excited and readily aroused. And they are correct. However, when it comes to finding those elusive secrets that result in the best sex ever, these goods don’t even enter the top 20!
So, what’s the secret ingredient to irresistibly, wonderfully mind-blowing sex? You are the answer! The number one element in the world’s finest sex is you, as a woman, as his woman.
But, before you scoff and say, “Duh!” Because I’m a woman, that’s exactly what guys desire.” Allow us to explain...
Men don’t want abstraction—it titillates and fills their brains and “spare” time—what they truly want, what they crave, is you, their friend, partner, lover, and confidant, not some mirage, some method, some airbrushed co-ed who likes to make apple pies and play tennis. They want you to do more than merely want you. More than wanting you, they want you to:
· Love and take care of your body
· Feel sexy about yourself!
· Being able to express all your needs
· Do not hesitate with your love, desire, and passion
· Be present!
· Be comfortable and willing to indulge in both yours and his fantasies
· And, instead of making sex a dividing instrument, let it be a place where you and him “come together.”
You become hotter and more alluring to men than any centerfold, more gratifying than any method, and more orgasmic than any part you might play when you perform these “things.” It’s when you and your man get to know each other. It’s more than simply sex; it’s mind-blowing sex, the type that sends chills down your spine just thinking about it and makes you need each other... another hug, another touch. It’s undeniably the finest sex ever, with you and he connecting on both physical and spiritual levels.
You become the epitome of all women to him when you can love yourself and your body. You are the sexiest, most beautiful woman of all time. You’re *his* lady!
So, regardless of how large or tiny your breasts are, how much cellulite you have, whether you’re young or old, slim or not, you’re everything. You’re *his* lady. Yes, that does sound a little primitive, doesn’t it? But it isn’t because he is also *your* guy when you give yourself up to this type of love, to this kind of sex. It works both ways, as you can see. You’ll find that the more you indulge him, the more he will indulge you. He can love you more the more you love yourself. The more seductive you are, the more seductive he will find you!
Some of you may be thinking that the “list appears to be a little touchy-feely to me.” “These are things my man would never say to me.” “How could I believe this is what he truly desires?” I wondered. While he may not be able to express it, he is clearly experiencing these feelings.
Consider it: wouldn’t you want your partner to fulfill all of these roles for you? If he felt this strongly about himself, wouldn’t this list of “ingredients” make for the finest sex ever? Why should it be any different for him, of course?
You are giving your partner the finest sex gift-toy-outfit-treat-experience he could possibly want when you learn to love yourself, feel sensual about yourself, and feel secure and respected in your relationship. Give it a go; we’re confident you’ll see what I’m talking about... maybe even tonight! You could read our book – “The Sensual Journey ofthe Seven Graduates: The Education of an Erotic Journey” in order to learn more about how men like their sex performed