I go by the pseudonym Kay Shade. At the moment I don’t answer to any titles as I don’t feel it’s appropriate to refer to myself as slave, even though that’s what I am. So I would appreciate any communication involving me to simply refer to me as Kay.
Not that it matters on a day to day level, but I’m also non-human (exo-human is another term floating around the non-human community). Specifically I’m a swarm of different creatures who all work together to make up the fantasy that is me. I consider myself a subspecies of fae, a creature of fantasy.
I started this blog because I realised that I may have to look for a suitable Owner at some point and I have very particular needs and interests. As a no rights no limits irrevocable consent slave getting an Owner isn’t a trivial matter for me. The line between a spectacular and irrepressibly happy life, and getting abused is particularly thin in my case. So I have to find an Owner who can be trusted with my existence and who I can love.
But further, I’m excellent at managing my life. At the moment I’m still rebuilding from a rather catastrophic period of my life. But the outlook is very positive. And simply put, I don’t see why I would give over my existence to someone who couldn’t run it half as well as me. I have been in relationships like that before and don’t relish going back.
And lastly I have had to start over completely from scratch, with completely new people one too many times and I don’t intend to do that ever again. So whomever I dedicate my life to will have to be the last.
With all of that in mind I have to choose my future Owner with a great deal of care. As such my standards are high, and as a consequence I feel I should put due effort into providing materials for interested parties to determine whether they feel we’d be a good fit. It also forms a good basis for weeding out individuals who aren’t sufficiently motivated to go through the effort.
Sadly I’m not very good at explaining the reality of myself. So all of this, by necessity, will be a relatively poor reflection of what I’m like in person. But I hope it meanders in generally the correct direction.
You can find links to all my socials on the links page. And you can find a navigation section here.