We always want as the things to happen into a certain way.
It is almost like the desire of writing a certain type of scenario ... and the partner to really read those lines and act exactly like we had written.
It's funny ... i know.
But actually ... it is actually the way we act on the stage of life ....many, many times.
And .... if it is not happening like we want ... we suddenly go crazy.
Then ... we start to say on and on and on ... about the way we actually want reality to look like.
Unfortunately ... we can't stop ourselves doing that.
So ... life continues... trying to convince our partners that what we are saying .... it is the absolute truth ... and we really must follow ... ad litteram ... all our ideas.
I had done that.
Maybe ... i am still doing it.
But ... what i had observed and it is really bad ... is that many times i am pushing non stop ... all.
I want all to be ... as i want.
... everything.
Even ... the simple things.
Until .... all becomes ridiculous.
On the other hand ... i also believe that this obsession of changing the partner to be into a certain way is just a reflection of the huge desire of being together ... but of course ... into a certain way.
But ... truth be told ... analysing myself ... i had come to the conclusion that we should stop ourselves to control reality.
Stop ... changing our partners.
Cause ... it is not working ... on long term.
Of course that theory is theory ... and on the stage of the real life ... all is different.
We ... just can't stop ourselves ... chasing as things to happen into a certain way.
And ... we push all so, so much ... that into the end ... we just ruin ... all.
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