I try to be as open to possibilities as I can, and generally am willing to give people the benefit of the doubt. However, there are certain signs I look for that suggest difficulties in compatibility:
1. A literal saffron flag outside your house. Not a fan of bhaktoids.
2. Highly active on social media, particularly if more than 80% of your posts feature yourself.
3. Any expectation that a man must win you over, provide for you, or (ugh) feed you. Can you be independent enough that you do not need another’s attention to feel validated?