Many Dominatrices are now choosing to do this online and sites such as Filthy Adult have guides for boosting your fanbase and revenue, building authenticity and learning how to stand out from other creators.
With how the world currently is, things are not going to plan for many that is a physical Dominatrix and having to start being an online Dominatrix. This got me thinking about offering 5 Tips To Be An Online Dominatrix.
It’s very common to see an online Dominatrix but underground, there are many Dominatrix in the physical sense. You just seem to hear less about it or mostly see things online.
Over time, Dominatrix are now moving online and unsure of where to even begin, find others that are into a similar style of kink and feel way out of their depth.
The UK is slowly closing down again and many more are going to need to start using the internet to find online Dominatrix.
Anyway, enough of the world being as it is, let’s get into the fun stuff!
Being An Online Dominatrix
Before I get into the 5 tips to be an online Dominatrix, I thought I would first discuss being an online Dominatrix.
So a Dominatrix, in short, is a female who is dominating and takes on a sadistic role in sadomasochistic sexual activities.
You might imagine this as a strong woman, dressed in leather or latex and having a man under her feet, quite literally! But this isn’t quite the case. Although many are stylised this way, you can have a dominating woman in a career, home and the bedroom.
5 Tips To Be An Online Dominatrix
Where to look/advertise
You want to find websites that are catering to Dominatrix specifically, you want to choose search terms that are going to give you really good hits, such as dominatrix near me if you are looking for a Dominatrix, or subs near me.
Then using other words such as BDSM, domination and the such like are a good idea, but be awary of the sites you are selecting.
Try the free sites first, there is no need to pay for access or pay per message. Rather, you can consider sites that are free to join, but possibly have premium memberships but again, research into this before you sign up.
You can also advertise your services on websites that cater to Findom, BDSM, Sugar Mum/Dad, Domination, and similar search terms. If you want to ensure your services get noticed by the right audience, it’s worth looking into how an Adult SEO Agency can help. These professionals specialize in optimizing content for adult industries, helping your site or ads rank higher in searches while targeting the right people.
In addition to this, many people are now going to OnlyFans! However, there are also many cam sites out there as an alternative. You can see reviews of these sites on Adult Cam Police; cam sites are great as you can have some fun and make money at the same time.
Staying Safe
You don’t know most of the time who you are talking to and it’s always wise to check out the person as much as possible. It’s always best to be safe and if you do end up meeting, take someone with you.
Even online, NEVER give your personal details such as address, full name and bank details.
Be wary of those that are online to scam people, this can be in the form of begging for money and using manipulation to pay for something, food/hospital/travel.
Never ever give someone your card details, check every website you purchase from and ALWAYS look for reviews that are legitimate. TrustPilot is a good option.
Consider being safe especially if you are thinking about having one night stands.
Equipment you need
When you are thinking about becoming an online Dominatrix, there are some items you need to consider using such as a good webcam, microphone, computer/laptop to stream on and toys and clothing. Even a good office phone if you are going to be doing phone work.
You need to make sure that you are buying lasting equipment that gives you clear sound, voice and runs fast enough for you to work on.
Having a good stable computer is always a good idea and buying a separate microphone or headset and webcam will give you a better quality sound and video for your escapades.
Types of work
So if you are thinking about working in this industry, there are many types of work you can do.
Here are some options you can think about when being an online Dominatrix:
Sex texts – This is a popular option for those that would rather not show their face or talk and prefer to keep it web-based.
Sex texts are usually paid between 3p-15p per message you send, depending on the platform and can make around £200-£300 a week if you choose a busy platform.
Generally, they are males looking for some form of sex/dating and you can imagine the messages will be dirty and crude.
I wanted to post a little update to this in 2022 – A few providers have since closed and no longer operating. I’ve reached out to a few however at the moment due to the volume of people applying, they are not taking on. I will update this as I have more information but right now, it doesn’t look good for the sex text industry.
Phone work – Another popular option. This is good when you live alone, or with someone that doesn’t mind you being on the phone and talking dirty.
Generally, phone calls are sexual in nature and less about having someone just to talk to. So be prepared to hear it all when you are doing phone calls.
Being an online dominatrix over the phone is fun and can give you some ideas for other things.
Webcam – Many like the security of webcamming and get paid in many forms, such as having private videos and they pay per minute, or receiving tips from watchers.
There are many webcamming sites and do recommend to use one where you are going to be safe, such as LiveJasmin.
Pictures/videos – OnlyFans is popular at the moment and a good platform to offer subscriptions for your content.
You can create your own website or advertise on websites curated for being an online dominatrix.
Erotic writing – Erotic writing is a wonderful way to make some money if you know how to write and can sell through a platform such as Amazon. There are many erotic writers, whether fiction or non-fiction, these are wonderful ways to get your thoughts and ideas out there.
Maybe set up a website for your writing and entice people into purchasing the full book.
Be creative
To get anywhere in this industry at the moment, you need to be creative. With the country being as it is right now, many are flocking to web-based work so if you decide to do this as a career, you need to find a niche and something to make you stand out from everyone else.